Heres how to talk to your neighbors and solve problems, according to experts.
But occasionally conflict arises and handling it peacefully is paramount.
Avoid neighbor conflicts, and help solve them if they do arise, with these expert tips and insight.
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Establish Rapport
One way to avoid conflict with neighbors is to build a rapport with another.
This often begins when you first move into a new area.
Introduce yourself to your neighbors and establish a rapport with them.
You dont have to be close friends with your neighbors to have a good rapport.
Exchange names and contact information and say hello when you see them around your area.
“It might be easy to say hello and make that introduction when the neighbors are out.”
Abide by the rules and dont purposefully violate them, especially if they will directly affect your neighbors.
Official “rules” will vary by location and issue.
If you’ll be doing construction right away, ensure you have all proper permits and paperwork.
Ifthere is an HOA, adhere to the rules of your association.
But, in general, just be a courteous person and most issues are easily handled.
take a stab at stick to the norms of your area.
If you see folks outside chatting, observe the time of day and circumstances before introducing yourself.
Does it look like a good time for that person to chat?
Ideally, weekend mornings or early afternoons tend to be the ideal times for a quick chat."
Communicate in Advance
Keep in mind that many problems can be prevented through open communication.
Open lines of communication can go a long way.
Address Problems
Have a concern about a neighbor?
Dont let the problem fester.
Determine if the problem is an ongoing issue or a one-time matter.
When youre ready to address the problem, start by talking to the neighbor directly.
The first initial approach should be a face-to-face conversation between the two neighbors, Ampim says.
While speaking to each other, be mindful of your language.
Get Others Involved
Of course, not all conversations will go smoothly.
You might need to take the issue to the next level.
Sokolowski also suggests doing your homework.
This would assist with determining a track record and if the neighbor has ever caused any other issues.
