Afternoon tea parties have a rich history among the British aristocracy but are less common in North America.
You may be familiar with this tradition from theever-popularBridgertonseriesor have fond memories of playful childhood tea parties.
For the inside scoop on hosting a dreamy tea party, three experts (includingBridgertons on-set etiquette consultant!)
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Will you host it indoors or outdoors?
How many people will attend?
What will the decor be like?
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How do you envision the menu?
Do you want it to feel traditional, or will you take a more modern approach?
These are just a few questions to help you get into party-planning mode.
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Creating the Menu
Tea is, of course, the star of the show here.
But there are a few things to know before you steep your first pot.
First, traditional tea parties always use loose-leaf teaneverbagged.
Milk and sweeteners like sugar and honey are provided on the table, alongside thoughtful touches like lemon slices.
“Scones are served with clotted cream and preserves.
Cakes, pastries, and cupcakesthe latter are more modern tea foodsshould be small and mess-free.”
It is usually associated with a full, hearty meal and is considered informal.
On the other hand, afternoon tea is more formal, established by the aristocracy.
Add fresh linen napkins, small bouquets ofseasonal flowers, and some candles to the table for ambiance.
Were not going for towering candelabras or tall candlesticks here.
Have fun with decorations, but keep it classy," von Ramm says.
Dont Forget the Little Details
Lastly, remember that the charm lies in the details.
Encourage your guests to dress a bit classy to enhance the event and create an enjoyable atmosphere.
Most importantly, do your best to enjoy your own party.
A relaxed host makes an event more fun for everyone.
Dont fuss if something goes off-plan.
Spilled tea or a forgotten spoon is nothing compared to warm conversation and thoughtful company," Musayeva says.
“The art of tea is not in formality.
Its in the feelinga sense of care, of attentiveness.
Thats what makes a tea party memorable.”
