Hamptons private chef Meredith Hayden became a TikTok sensation sharing her day in the life videos.

Still, she has some house rules for herself and her guests.

I get outrage about it on social media, but thats just how I was raised.

meredith hayden sitting on arm of pink/patterned couch in living room

Credit:Annie Schlechter

My dogs are where I amat all times.

Coming home to a space that feels clean, fresh, and cozy is a priority for me.

Read on for Meredith Haydens tried-and-true hosting habits that make each of her soirees a success.

Q: How do you set the mood when you have guests over?

I love when my house smells good and I love candles.

For the table, I stick tounscented tapers.

Q: How do you deal with hosting stress?

Meredith Hayden

Just keep me company, and let me chop.

Q: Whats the best hostess gift youve received?

I love hostess gifts that feel personal in some way.

I also love a custom dish towel or a special set of napkins.

My favorite present recently was a little watercolor picture of my dog.

Q: Are guests allowed to help out?

Just keep me company, and let me chop.

Q: As a chef, is your kitchen always organized or are you more laidback?

Im someone who really wants to be organized but is very bad at it.